Saturday, January 3, 2026

Neither Do I Condemn Thee

 Picture this: the bustling marketplace, the murmur of conversations, the scent of spices in the air. Suddenly, a commotion erupts. A woman caught in the very act of adultery is dragged before Jesus.

 Her accusers, self-righteous and unforgiving, stand ready to condemn. The law is clear, the punishment severe. They await Jesus's verdict, eager to see justice served.

 The woman stands trembling, shame washing over her. Her heart pounds in her chest, her gaze fixed on the dusty ground. The weight of her sin is heavy, the whispers of the crowd like stones pelting her soul.

 Will he condemn her? Will he pronounce the sentence that seems inevitable? In this moment of raw vulnerability, Jesus does something unexpected. He doesn't immediately engage with the accusations hurled at the woman. Instead, he bends down and begins to write in the dirt.

 The crowd watches, their anticipation growing with each passing second. What is he writing? Is he recording the woman's sin for all to see? Jesus pauses, the hush of the crowd deepening the silence. He looks up, his gaze sweeping over the faces of the accusers.

 Let any one of you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her. One by one, the accusers drop their stones, their faces etched with a mixture of guilt and shame. The weight of their own imperfection settles upon them, mirroring the weight of the woman's sin.

 They had come to judge, to condemn, but in the presence of true righteousness, they were forced to confront their own shortcomings. Jesus, seeing their hearts, bends down once more and continues writing in the dirt. He doesn't shame them, doesn't berate them for their hypocrisy.

 Instead, he offers them a chance to reflect, to choose compassion over condemnation. He reminds them that they, too need grace. The crowd disperses, leaving the woman standing alone with Jesus.

 He looks at her, his eyes filled not with judgment, but with love and understanding. Neither do I condemn you. Go and sin no more.

 This powerful encounter illustrates a profound truth about God's heart. He looks beyond the surface, beyond our mistakes and shortcomings, and sees the potential for redemption within each of us. He doesn't define us by our worst moments, but offers us a chance to rise above them.

 We see this same compassion in Jesus's interactions with the thief on the cross, stripped of his dignity, facing his final moments. The thief acknowledges Jesus as Lord and receives the gift of salvation. Jesus doesn't focus on the man's past, but on the genuineness of his repentance.

 And what about the man born blind? The disciples, seeing his blindness as a consequence of sin, asked Jesus who was to blame. Jesus, however, challenges their assumptions, explaining that the man's blindness was an opportunity for God's work to be displayed in his life.

Choosing compassion over judgment. These stories teach us the importance of looking beyond the surface, of choosing compassion over judgment. It's easy to make assumptions based on appearances, to label and categorize people based on their past mistakes or current circumstances.

 But God calls us to a higher standard, to a love that sees beyond the outward facade and recognizes the inherent worth of every individual. When we're tempted to judge, let's remember the woman caught in adultery, the thief on the cross, the man born blind. Let's recall Jesus's unwavering compassion, his willingness to extend grace and forgiveness, even in the face of sin.

 Let's strive to see others through his eyes, recognizing that everyone carries their own burdens, their own struggles, their own stories of pain and redemption. Section five, forgiveness, the path to healing and hope. Forgiveness is not a sign of weakness, but a testament to the transformative power of love.

 It doesn't condone wrongdoing, but frees us from the bitterness and resentment that can poison our hearts. When we choose to forgive, we open ourselves to the possibility of healing, both for ourselves and for those who have hurt us. Remember, we are all works in progress, stumbling and falling as we journey through life.

 None of us are immune to making mistakes, to straying from the path of righteousness. But God, in his infinite mercy, offers us a way back, a chance to start anew.

 Let us therefore embrace the grace that has been so freely given to us and extend that same grace to others. Let us be instruments of God's love and mercy, offering hope and encouragement to those who are lost and hurting. Let us build bridges of understanding, tearing down walls of judgment and prejudice.

 In a world often consumed by negativity and division, let us be beacons of light, reflecting the boundless love and compassion of our Savior. Let us strive to embody the words of Micah 6, 8. What does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.

Here’s to love and light.

Rev. Leslie C. Bonner

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Wednesday, December 17, 2025

Neither Do I Condemn Thee

Picture this: the bustling marketplace, the murmur of conversations, and the scent of spices in the air. Suddenly, a commotion erupts. A woman caught in the very act of adultery is dragged before Jesus.

 Her accusers, self-righteous and unforgiving, stand ready to condemn. The law is clear, the punishment severe. They await Jesus's verdict, eager to see justice served.

 The woman stands trembling, shame washing over her. Her heart pounds in her chest, her gaze fixed on the dusty ground. The weight of her sin is heavy, the whispers of the crowd like stones pelting her soul.

 Will he condemn her? Will he pronounce the sentence that seems inevitable? In this moment of raw vulnerability, Jesus does something unexpected. He doesn't immediately engage with the accusations hurled at the woman. Instead, he bends down and begins to write in the dirt.

 The crowd watches, their anticipation growing with each passing second. What is he writing? Is he recording the woman's sin for all to see? Jesus pauses, the hush of the crowd deepening the silence. He looks up, his gaze sweeping over the faces of the accusers.

 Let any one of you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her. One by one, the accusers drop their stones, their faces etched with a mixture of guilt and shame. The weight of their own imperfection settles upon them, mirroring the weight of the woman's sin.

 They had come to judge, to condemn, but in the presence of true righteousness, they were forced to confront their own shortcomings. Jesus, seeing their hearts, bends down once more and continues writing in the dirt. He doesn't shame them, doesn't berate them for their hypocrisy.

 Instead, he offers them a chance to reflect, to choose compassion over condemnation. He reminds them that they too are in need of grace. The crowd disperses, leaving the woman standing alone with Jesus.

 He looks at her, his eyes filled not with judgment, but with love and understanding. Neither do I condemn you. Go and sin no more.

 This powerful encounter illustrates a profound truth about God's heart. He looks beyond the surface, beyond our mistakes and shortcomings, and sees the potential for redemption within each of us. He doesn't define us by our worst moments, but offers us a chance to rise above them.

 We see this same compassion in Jesus's interactions with the thief on the cross, stripped of his dignity, facing his final moments. The thief acknowledges Jesus as Lord and receives the gift of salvation. Jesus doesn't focus on the man's past, but on the genuineness of his repentance.

 And what about the man born blind? The disciples, seeing his blindness as a consequence of sin, asked Jesus who was to blame. Jesus, however, challenges their assumptions, explaining that the man's blindness was an opportunity for God's work to be displayed in his life. Section four, beyond the surface.

 Choosing compassion over judgment. These stories teach us the importance of looking beyond the surface, of choosing compassion over judgment. It's easy to make assumptions based on appearances, to label and categorize people based on their past mistakes or current circumstances.

 But God calls us to a higher standard, to a love that sees beyond the outward facade and recognizes the inherent worth of every individual. When we're tempted to judge, let's remember the woman caught in adultery, the thief on the cross, the man born blind. Let's recall Jesus's unwavering compassion, his willingness to extend grace and forgiveness, even in the face of sin.

 Let's strive to see others through his eyes, recognizing that everyone carries their own burdens, their own struggles, their own stories of pain and redemption. Section five, forgiveness, the path to healing and hope. Forgiveness is not a sign of weakness, but a testament to the transformative power of love.

 It doesn't condone wrongdoing but frees us from the bitterness and resentment that can poison our hearts. When we choose to forgive, we open ourselves to the possibility of healing, both for ourselves and for those who have hurt us. Remember, we are all works in progress, stumbling and falling as we journey through life.

 None of us are immune to making mistakes, to straying from the path of righteousness. But God, in his infinite mercy, offers us a way back, a chance to start anew. Section six, embracing grace, extending love.

 Let us therefore embrace the grace that has been so freely given to us and extend that same grace to others. Let us be instruments of God's love and mercy, offering hope and encouragement to those who are lost and hurting. Let us build bridges of understanding, tearing down walls of judgment and prejudice.

In a world often consumed by negativity and division, let us be beacons of light, reflecting the boundless love and compassion of our Savior. Let us strive to embody the words of Micah 6:8. What does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.

MERRY CHRISTMAS

Rev. Leslie C. Bonner

Sunday, November 2, 2025

Before You Judge Try This One Shift

 Judge not lest ye be judged. The Empathy Gap. Victims of Circumstance.

We rarely judge victims of circumstance harshly. Imagine a friend trapped in a toxic relationship, manipulated and controlled. We offer support, not scorn.

We recognize they are victims, not villains. Similarly, consider individuals caught in the clutches of a cult. Their warped worldview, by manipulation, might seem alien to us, yet we understand they are victims of indoctrination.

This empathy so readily extended in a personal context often evaporates in the realm of political and cultural discourse. We encounter differing viewpoints, not as opportunities for understanding, but as threats to our own beliefs. The Battlefield of Beliefs, Where Judgment Thrives.

Political and cultural debates often devolve into battlefields. We arm ourselves with facts and figures, ready to vanquish opposing viewpoints. Judgment becomes our weapon of choice, wielded with righteous indignation.

This judgmental approach ignores a crucial element: the role of misinformation and manipulation. Just as the manipulated partner or the cult member, individuals with differing viewpoints might be operating from a place of distorted information. Their upbringing, their sources of information, and their lived experiences all contribute to shaping their worldview.

What we perceive as ignorance might be their reality, molded by forces beyond their control. Ancient Wisdom for Modern Discord: Lessons from Stoicism. The Stoic philosophers of ancient Rome offered timeless wisdom for navigating our judgmental tendencies.

Marcus Aurelius, in his Meditations, urges us to consider the possibility that those who wrong us act out of ignorance. Epictetus, another Stoic master, echoes this sentiment, stating, Do not be angry with the mistaken one. He reminds us that even those who cling fiercely to their beliefs do so because they believe them to be true.

These ancient teachings highlight a fundamental truth. People rarely hold on to beliefs they know to be false. Their convictions, however misguided, stem from a place of perceived truth.

A bridge of understanding. Empathy over condemnation. Instead of meeting differing viewpoints with judgment, let us strive for empathy.

Let us remember that behind every opinion, every belief, lies a human being shaped by a unique set of experiences and influences. This is not to say we should abandon our own principles or condone harmful beliefs. Rather, it is a call to approach disagreements with understanding, recognizing that our own perspectives are but fragments of a larger truth.

 As Jesus taught, Judge not, lest ye be judged. In a world rife with division, let empathy, not judgment, be our guiding principle. Only then can we hope to bridge the divides that separate us and build a more compassionate and understanding world.

 

Here’s to love and light.

Rev. Leslie C. Bonner

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Wednesday, October 1, 2025

Standing Alone with God

What does it truly mean to stand alone with God? Imagine embarking on a profound personal journey, one that invites you to explore the depths of your own spirit. At its core, standing alone with God is about realizing a unique oneness, where you become the master of your destiny. This isn't about the collective rituals or shared beliefs commonly found in community religious experiences.

 It's about a personal communion, where understanding your unity with God shapes every aspect of your being. Understanding this oneness opens a gateway to deeper self-awareness and personal growth. Imagine the power of realizing I and my Father are one.

This profound statement isn't just a declaration of faith; it's an acknowledgement of a deep intrinsic connection to the divine. When we embrace this truth, we tap into a profound source of spiritual and philosophical enlightenment that transforms our very being. This belief in oneness with God empowers us to live lives brimming with health, strength, and peace.

 It's not merely about physical well-being, but encompasses mental and spiritual health as well. Imagine waking up each day feeling invigorated by an unshakable peace and an enduring joy, knowing that you are supported and guided by the divine in all your endeavors. Moreover, this connection acts as a direct line to divine support and guidance.

 It's like having a constant wise companion who walks with you, offering insights and wisdom that steer you through life's complexities. In this oneness, there is an infinite wellspring of joy, comfort, and power. Why is the journey with God a profound, solo adventure? This question opens the door to understanding the essence of spiritual solitude.

Every spiritual journey is profoundly personal and unique, shaped by individual experiences and insights. It is in these moments of solitude that one truly confronts their destiny and life's deepest questions. Personal struggles and judgments are not only roadblocks for us as pilgrims on this path, but also chances for development and enlightenment.

These are the moments where one's relationship with the divine is tested and strengthened. With God as a guiding force, these challenges are faced with grace and resilience, transforming them into milestones of spiritual empowerment. 

Standing alone with God does not mean isolation. It means being supported by the highest power. So, what have we uncovered about standing alone with God? It's a profound realization that this journey is not just about solitude but about discovering the immense power within oneself. It's about personal mastery, recognizing that only you can face your destiny and your judgments.

 It's about understanding that in the oneness with the divine, there lies an inexhaustible source of life, health, strength, peace, and joy. This individual connection with God is not just a retreat from the world, but a way to deeply navigate its complexities with a renewed sense of strength and clarity. Embrace this personal relationship.

Let it be a source of comfort and power as you face the challenges and triumphs of life. As you walk your path, remember that in oneness with God, you are never truly alone. 

Here’s to love and light.

Rev. Leslie C. Bonner

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Sunday, August 31, 2025

Embracing Solitude with the Divine

 In the stillness of today—and indeed, every day—arises a profound realization: the essential need to stand alone with God. It is within this solitary communion that we discover the mastery of self. Picture yourself engaging with the grand tapestry of life, facing its trials and joys not merely as spectators but as co-creators, with the Divine as our collaborator.

 Unity with the Divine

 Recognize the truth in the words, "I and My Father are One." This unity offers not just existence but an abundance of health, strength, peace, and joy. It is a relationship that transcends communal affairs, deeply rooted in personal spiritual soil. With this understanding, grasp this vital truth: you are never truly alone.

 A Source of Comfort and Power

 This bond with the Divine serves as an unending source of comfort, a wellspring of power that rejuvenates and empowers us. Even in moments of solitude, there exists a vibrant connection that envelops us in boundless peace and dominion.

 The Journey of Oneness

Embrace the journey of oneness, for it is the pathway to all that is life-giving and liberating. In this journey, we learn that our struggles are not just obstacles but opportunities for growth, shaping us into stronger, more resilient beings.

Let us celebrate this divine relationship, knowing that in every moment of solitude, we are connected to the greater whole, and in this connection lies our true strength and purpose.

Here’s to love and light.

 Rev. Leslie C. Bonner

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Sunday, August 3, 2025

The Natural Man Defined

Introduction

The concept of the "natural man" serves as a profound reflection of humanity's disconnection from its spiritual roots. This article will delve into the essence of what it means to be a natural man, exploring the implications of this state on our lives, relationships, and overall existence.

Understanding the Natural Man

The term natural man typically refers to an individual who lives primarily within the confines of physical existence, governed by instinct, desires, and societal norms. This state of being is characterized by a lack of spiritual awareness or connection, resulting in a life focused on material pursuits and transient pleasures.

Characteristics of the Natural Man

1. Materialism: The natural man often prioritizes material wealth and physical gratification over spiritual growth. This was emphasized in the bible by the phrase: "be in the world, but not of the world", which highlights the idea that we should be physically present in the world but must not adopt its values or norms, reflecting a higher spiritual calling. This material focus leads to a superficial understanding of life, where success is measured by possessions rather than inner fulfillment.

2. Instinctual Behavior: Driven by base instincts and desires, the natural man tends to react impulsively rather than thoughtfully. This can result in destructive behaviors and choices that ultimately lead to dissatisfaction.

3. Isolation from Spirituality: A significant aspect of the natural man is the disconnection from spiritual roots. This isolation can stem from societal influences, personal experiences, or a lack of awareness of one's spiritual nature.

4. Emotional Turmoil: Without a solid spiritual foundation, the natural man may experience heightened emotional instability. Feelings of anxiety, depression, and emptiness are common as individuals seek meaning in a material world.

The Disconnection from Spiritual Roots

Humanity's disconnection from spiritual roots is a critical aspect of understanding the natural man. This disconnection can manifest in various ways:

1. Cultural Influences

Modern society often emphasizes individualism and material success, promoting a worldview that neglects spiritual values. This cultural shift has led many to prioritize personal gain over communal and spiritual well-being.

2. Loss of Tradition

As societies evolve, traditional spiritual practices and beliefs may be abandoned or altered. This loss can create a void, leaving individuals searching for meaning in a world that no longer provides it.

3. Technological Distraction

The rise of technology and social media has further exacerbated the disconnection from spirituality. Constant distractions can lead to a superficial existence, where genuine connections and introspection are sacrificed for instant gratification.

The Impact of Being a Natural Man

Living as a natural man has profound implications for both individual and collective well-being. The consequences of this disconnection can be observed in various aspects of life:

1. Relationships

The natural man's focus on self-interest can lead to strained relationships. Without a sense of empathy and spiritual connection, individuals may struggle to form meaningful bonds with others.

2. Mental Health

The absence of spiritual grounding can contribute to mental health challenges. Feelings of isolation, anxiety, and depression are common among those who live solely in the natural realm, as they lack the tools to navigate life's complexities.

3. Societal Issues

On a larger scale, the prevalence of the natural man can lead to societal issues such as inequality, conflict, and environmental degradation. When individuals prioritize personal gain over the collective well-being of society, the fabric of society begins to unravel.

Conclusion

The concept of the natural man serves as a poignant reminder of humanity's potential for disconnection from its spiritual roots. By recognizing the characteristics and consequences of this state, individuals can begin to seek a deeper understanding of themselves and their place in the world. Embracing spirituality and acknowledging our interconnectedness can pave the way for a more fulfilling and harmonious existence.

Here’s to love and light.

Rev. Leslie C. Bonner

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Sunday, July 6, 2025

The Law of God vs. The Natural Man

In a world teeming with scientific and industrial marvels, there's a stark absence of spiritual growth. This is the story of the natural man, a being who does not receive divine gifts because they are not under the law of God. Picture a branch, severed from its tree, withering away.

 This is humanity, disconnected from its spiritual roots. Every news broadcast paints a desolate scene, a testament to our era's spiritual drought. From the strained relationships between management and labor to the vast chasms between governments and the governed, the evidence is clear.

 We live under the law of self-preservation and self-justification. Yet there's hope. When the Spirit of God stirs within us, a transformation begins.

 We start to see others not as strangers, but as neighbors, as extensions of ourselves. This isn't just about closeness; it's about a profound shift from isolation to community, from division to unity. As we navigate through these challenging times, remember that the revival of our spirit isn't just possible; it's essential for healing.

 As we embrace the Spirit of God, we learn to love our neighbor as ourselves, bridging the gaps that once seemed insurmountable. Namaste.

Here’s to love and light.

 Rev. Leslie C. Bonner

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Neither Do I Condemn Thee

  Picture this: the bustling marketplace, the murmur of conversations, the scent of spices in the air. Suddenly, a commotion erupts. A woman...